- PARTNER ROLE
- FRIEND ROLE
- MARRIAGE ROLE
- COMMUNITY ROLE
- PARENTING ROLE
- CARING ROLE
- COMMUNICATION ROLE
- DATING ROLE
Roles Rock
Welcome! You have chosen to focus on the roles you use in relationships.
This means you’ll be looking at how the Seven Roles show up in your connections with others — in friendships, partnerships, family dynamics, or community life.
Watch the video above for step-by-step instructions. Prefer reading instead? Just scroll down for the details.
You, ROLESTAR ⭐️
Pick ONE relationship or one area of relationships
To make your Roleset results clearer and more useful, choose one key relationship (a spouse, partner, close friend, or family member) and take the Seven Roles questionnaire with that connection in mind.
👉 For the best insights, invite the other person to take the scale too.
Comparing results will show how your roles work together and offer a great conversational opportunity about the differences.d.
Answer Quickly
Responding without overthinking gives you the most accurate Roleset. Avoid the middle ground. It is easy to pick all 3's because you play all Seven Roles...sometimes. The goal is to find out when you play which roles so avoid the middle ground.
Save Your Results
Do you agree with your results? Did anything surprise you? We would love to hear from you!
Sofia
"When I took the Roles quiz, my top Role came out as Implementor, and it fit me perfectly. I love being the one who supports, encourages, and makes sure other people succeed.
But the results also made me realize something about my dating life: I keep choosing men who need ‘help.’ It feels natural for me to step in and lift them up, but it leaves me drained and disappointed.
The quiz opened my eyes — being an Implementor is a strength, but it’s not the same as choosing a partner. Now I’m learning to let that role shine where it belongs and to look for someone who meets me as an equal."
Nic and Dan
"When we took the Roles quiz, we laughed because our results could not have been more different. Dan came out strong in Organizer and Conceptualizer, always planning ahead and thinking through details. I (Jenny) leaned toward Luminary and Team Builder, wanting to keep things spontaneous and make sure everyone’s having fun. At first, we thought our differences were just another thing to argue about when it came to planning dates or weekends with friends. But the quiz helped us realize we actually need both. Dan’s structure keeps our social life running smoothly, and my energy keeps it alive. Together, we balance each other out—and that’s what makes us work."
Rita and Liz
When my mom and I took the Roles quiz, we thought it would just be a fun activity. What we didn’t expect was how much we’d learn about each other.
My top Roles were Organizer and Implementor — I love setting up systems that keep things running. Mom’s top Role was Prophet — always asking why we’re doing something and imagining some new way to do it.
Suddenly, all those times we approached life differently made sense. Instead of clashing, we saw how our perspectives balance each other. The quiz gave us a new way to talk about it — and a deeper appreciation for what we have together.
